Sex, love, and the dangers of intimacy. How to maintain passion in a relationship when the honeymoon phase is over.

In our days, when couples experience difficulties in relationships, they often come to the conclusion that their meeting was a huge mistake, and in most cases they part ways. And then each person individually takes a long time to recover. According to surveys, divorce ranks high in terms of trauma.

The book offers a different approach. There are special ways to overcome conflicts. If one goes through them bravely and creatively, it can be a path to personal transformation.

We hope that our book will be a support for those who want to understand the complexities of close relationships. Its goal is to describe the changes that can take place in long-term partnerships.

We also want to talk about the feelings that accompany transformation. We want not only to describe the stages that most couples have to go through, but also to show how scary and lonely it can be for them at times, and how futile it all seems. We were inspired by the understanding that all people face remarkably similar problems.

We hope that by reading this book, you will understand some of your difficulties and sorrows and make every effort towards the remarkable task of learning to love another soul.

Helena Levendal, Nick Daffel