Say "Yes!" to yourself. The basics of a happy and successful life.

This book combines two bestsellers by Marina Melia dedicated to the psychology of success and effective communication - 'I Want - I Can - I Must. Discover Yourself and Act' and 'Everything is Not as It Seems. How to Get Out of Communication Deadlocks We Put Ourselves In'. In the first part, the author shares self-development tools that have been tested over decades of practical work. When we find ourselves at a crossroads, it's time to stop, reflect on ourselves, our desires, and our future. Why do we live the way we do? And how can we align our lives with our own aspirations and dreams? The author's method, which can be applied without the help of a psychologist, will help you figure this out. In the second part, Marina Melia addresses the topic of communication deadlocks and traps that even the most experienced and wise among us fall into. The practicing psychologist offers a new perspective on the most tangled communication situations and helps find a way out of them. You will learn: - how your favorite fairy tale influenced your destiny, - when it's important to say 'no', - how to argue without quarreling, - what prevents you from making decisions, - how to get out of unhealthy relationships, - whether you can change your life script, - how to do what you want and be happy. About the author: Marina Melia is a psychology professor with 50 years of practical experience, a coach-consultant for top executives in Russian business, and the author of bestsellers such as 'Marina Melia's Method. How to Strengthen Your Power', 'Leave the Child Alone! Simple Rules of Wise Parents', and 'Mom Nearby! The Main Secret of the First Year of Life'.