Proximity. Trust and other confidence

“The proximity is a treasure that must be protected,” says Osho. Even in the happiest family, one day there is an underlying sensation that something is missing. And this is something-the quality of intimacy.
Osho is sure: no matter how much you lived with a person - one month or twenty years - often unfamiliarity does not disappear. Many are afraid to show themselves to a loved one as it is, without embellishment - after all, it is like taking a step on a rope stretched over the abyss. But at the same time, everyone wants intimacy, because otherwise you will have to be lonely in the universe-without a friend, without someone who can be revealed and tell all their secrets ... How to overcome this contradiction?
In his book, Osho helps to realize the fears of intimacy. He teaches to look inside and get rid of everything that makes us feel shame in front of another person. He shows how to accept yourself as it is: “You have nothing to hide. Throw away everything that makes you think: “Oh God, others learn about it!” Keep silence and a loving heart. ”