So it is possible. Build borders in relations with difficult parents
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This is a book for everyone who would like to improve their relations with parents. Who is looking for support and acceptance from them, or just dreams of calm communication without hysteria and manipulations. Whom communications with parents are not fueled, but devastated. Who is not ready to minimize these communications, because he is in the need for parental participation or a duty to them.
Perhaps your parents believe that you are doing everything wrong. Perhaps they react negatively to your hobbies and interests. Perhaps you feel that you have not met their expectations and they are ashamed of you, or you are too dramatized, or too much dependent on their opinion. Their constant negative reaction to your decisions and requests may have led you to the conclusion that you demand too much from them and you yourself need to take care of them more. Perhaps you think that your parents often behave like children and sometimes you are the only adult in the family. In a sense, you had to play the role of a parent for your mother or father-or for both of them. Perhaps they complain about your living or each other, as if you can (and even must) solve their problems.
Or you think that your parents do not appreciate you, even if they love. Their attitude towards you can be called disrespectful, criticizing, demanding, hostile - in general.
Since you have probably already tried a lot of sophisticated methods to improve relations with your parents, it is difficult for you to believe that you can stop criticizing, demanding and dysfunctional relationships with parents. Of course, if it were easy, you would have long understood what to do, and have achieved the goal. It will not be easy. The decisions proposed in this book require strategic planning and considerable perseverance. But you will succeed
Perhaps your parents believe that you are doing everything wrong. Perhaps they react negatively to your hobbies and interests. Perhaps you feel that you have not met their expectations and they are ashamed of you, or you are too dramatized, or too much dependent on their opinion. Their constant negative reaction to your decisions and requests may have led you to the conclusion that you demand too much from them and you yourself need to take care of them more. Perhaps you think that your parents often behave like children and sometimes you are the only adult in the family. In a sense, you had to play the role of a parent for your mother or father-or for both of them. Perhaps they complain about your living or each other, as if you can (and even must) solve their problems.
Or you think that your parents do not appreciate you, even if they love. Their attitude towards you can be called disrespectful, criticizing, demanding, hostile - in general.
Since you have probably already tried a lot of sophisticated methods to improve relations with your parents, it is difficult for you to believe that you can stop criticizing, demanding and dysfunctional relationships with parents. Of course, if it were easy, you would have long understood what to do, and have achieved the goal. It will not be easy. The decisions proposed in this book require strategic planning and considerable perseverance. But you will succeed
Author:
Author:Аллен М. Дэвид
Cover:
Cover:Soft
Category:
- Category:Politics & Social Science
- Category:Psychology
- Category:Reference books
ISBN:
ISBN:978-5-6047925-1-3
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