She does not explain, he does not guess. Japanese art of dialogue without quarrels

Tatsunari Iota is a Japanese writer, psychologist -consultant. He says about himself: "I consider myself a kind of translator with whom it is easier for men and women to communicate with each other.

A few "useful phrases" from the book

For men:
- Today you look somehow unusual.
Even if you really do not notice changes, this phrase will demonstrate your attentive attitude to the partner. If you hear in response: "You think? I changed my hairstyle a bit " - consider it a hat in a hat.

- I will definitely marry when I meet the very one.
At the stage of acquaintance and the first dates, do not rush to deny your complete unpreparedness for marriage - this can be brought to the woman"s pretty woman that she does not need to lose time with you.

For women:

- first of all, three points ...
Men believe that women are too emotional and often miss the essence. If you want to be heard, start with the most important thing.

- Let"s make hot sandwiches and we will watch the movie.
The court of courtship and dates tired your partner, and now that you are together, he wants to relax a bit. Sometimes take concessions and spend time the way he wants. After all, you can go to a newfangled restaurant with a girlfriend