I will fix everything. The subtle art of reconciliation

Even those of us who are endowed with excellent communicative abilities sometimes make mistakes in communicating with people. Even those of us who are gifted with the best human qualities sometimes offend people. Even those of us who can easily forgive are signed by the bitter taste of the insults of the past. The wife cannot forget the betrayal of her beloved husband, the daughter recalls for many years a childhood resentment of an elderly mother, a good friend forever leaves after a careless word ... The list of what can destroy the relationship between people is endless. The way to establish them again alone is the right conversation or letter.
Harriet Lerner, a well -known clinical psychologist and psychotherapist, author of bestseller about family relationships, devotes his book to effective methods of reconciliation. Based on many years of practice and the stories of thousands of patients, Dr. Lerner teaches us to correct the mistakes made by us and in relation to us.
Harriet Lerner knows - we are all not perfect, but everyone has a chance to fix everything.

- You will understand why some people never apologize.
- You will find out whether it is possible to forgive 99% and why it is necessary.
- You will learn to select words for reconciliation, which will certainly be heard.
- You will be able to push people to apologize and release resentment, even if it is impossible to get an apology.
- You will learn to recognize false apologies and find out why they do not work.
- You will read a wise bright book that will help to understand that almost everything can be fixed.

Reviews:
If you want to know why Harriet Lerner is one of the greatest women of our time, just read "I will fix everything." This book completely changes the rules of the game.
Brand Braun, Doctor of Philosophy, author of the bestsellers New York Times "contrary to", "become stronger", "gifts of imperfection".

Harriet Lerner - an amazingly wise woman. First, you fall under the charm of her skillful exciting prose, then she changes your life with its deep human advice. I promise, you could not imagine what a "apology" is actually.
Esther Perel, a practicing psychotherapist, speaker, author of the bestseller "Propagation in captivity" and "Right to" Left ""

At first glance, Harriet Lerner conceived a guide to develop practical skills - how to express regret, plead guilty, accept an apology. And she turned out to have a wise book -thinking about things much more significant - about a sense of dignity, responsibility and vulnerability. About the ability to hear the pain of another, be it offended or offender. We can try to forgive everyone and always, but try to understand and experience sympathy. However, the reader is unlikely to go into abstract reasoning: the author picked up too recognizable situations and expressive examples.
Alla Anufrieva, editor of Psychologies magazine