From disagreement to proximity. Why are ups and downs - the key to the best relationship
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The research of Dr. Edward Tronik and the clinical experience of Dr. Claudia Gold will help to take a fresh look at the relationship with both other people and with himself.
It often seems to us that the main feature of healthy relationships is harmony. We strive for absolute understanding, because we are sure that this is a synonym for happiness and prosperity. We perceive any disagreements with a partner very painfully, because it seems to us that they marked the beginning of the end.
The famous psychologist Edward Tronik and Pediatrician Claudia Gold prove that human interaction is much more complicated and confusing than we used to think. From their point of view, conflicts are not only needed, but also extremely important for our social, personal and emotional development. In their book, they explain that misunderstanding and quarrels are inevitable, and overcoming disagreements is the right path to establishing truly strong relations with romantic partners, family, friends and colleagues.
Dr. Trinik was one of the first researchers who showed how strong the emotions and behavior of parents had a strong influence on the child. His experiment “Stone Face” is described in many works on psychology and is used by specialists around the world. This is a vivid evidence of what role a connection plays for us. However, discords with loved ones, whether it is a parent or a romantic partner, inevitable, the cycle “Destruction - Restoration” we pass every day. And it is precisely overcoming disagreements, we form a deep, long, trusting relationship, we become less susceptible to traumatic experience and are aware of who we are in this world
It often seems to us that the main feature of healthy relationships is harmony. We strive for absolute understanding, because we are sure that this is a synonym for happiness and prosperity. We perceive any disagreements with a partner very painfully, because it seems to us that they marked the beginning of the end.
The famous psychologist Edward Tronik and Pediatrician Claudia Gold prove that human interaction is much more complicated and confusing than we used to think. From their point of view, conflicts are not only needed, but also extremely important for our social, personal and emotional development. In their book, they explain that misunderstanding and quarrels are inevitable, and overcoming disagreements is the right path to establishing truly strong relations with romantic partners, family, friends and colleagues.
Dr. Trinik was one of the first researchers who showed how strong the emotions and behavior of parents had a strong influence on the child. His experiment “Stone Face” is described in many works on psychology and is used by specialists around the world. This is a vivid evidence of what role a connection plays for us. However, discords with loved ones, whether it is a parent or a romantic partner, inevitable, the cycle “Destruction - Restoration” we pass every day. And it is precisely overcoming disagreements, we form a deep, long, trusting relationship, we become less susceptible to traumatic experience and are aware of who we are in this world
Author:
Author:Edward Trinik, Claudia Gold
Cover:
Cover:Soft
Category:
- Category:Politics & Social Science
- Category:Psychology
- Category:Reference books
Publication language:
Publication Language:Russian
Paper:
Paper:printing
Age restrictions:
Age restrictions:16+
ISBN:
ISBN:978-5-00169-017-7
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