Mom without guilt. Tips for "Undering" mothers

In India, there is a multi -armed god Shiva. He manages to control everything and manage everyone, but his character is difficult, and the habits are barbaric. Or, for example, a spider. Also eight limbs - and he manages everything: and weave a beautiful lace, and to hunt, and his lunch is preparing in itself ... True, the reputation is not very, everyone is afraid, they dislike. But, say, an ordinary average mother. She is as if from the film "White Sun of the Desert": one wife sews, one and cooks, alone and watches for children, one and her husband loves - and all alone?! It’s hard ... If nature endowed her with eight hands, she would probably also say thanks, but she does it as it is: life, children, work, husband, hobby - everything is on her, because in most cases he manages to all this with all this Cope. True, what price! Someone"s character spoils, someone has a quarry stopped, someone waved his hand at himself and launched his appearance beyond recognition ... The world pays her with the same coin: the children do not obey and take away all their free time, life is overgrown, life, life, life. The husband is dissatisfied, the mother -in -law is gloating, friends pity and gossip ... everything, life is over, "I have diluted my best years!".
Is it possible in a different way? Can you have time not at the expense of nerves, loss of yourself or irrational waste of money, but due to a competent organization of time, space and people around you? Certainly! If you are a mother, tired of chaos, routine and guilt, this book is for you!