The world of narcissistic sacrifice: relations in the context of modern neurosis

Psychologists talk about an epidemic of narcissism. Today"s world requires us to comply with the increasing number of requirements - we must show leadership and creativity, think positively, constantly study, work hard and earn well. In this world there is no place for fatigue, poor mood, incorrect choice, a crisis of values ​​and other phenomena that accompany ordinary human life. All this becomes reinforcements for people with a narcissistic trauma, convinced that they are who are not good enough. They demand from themselves (as, perhaps, in childhood, parents demanded or waiting, already in adulthood, a partner-nartziss) ideal. And since they are not in their power to achieve it, they consider it the only possible thing to put up with the circumstances of life and traumatic relations that dissatisfied with their circumstances.
Only awareness of traumatic experience allows you to make it part (useful part!) of your personality and restore its own integrity. The book of psychologist Anastasia Dolganova talks about how to recognize the roots and manifestations of narcissism (the numerous stories of customers that the author leads to do) and find the way to real and healthy relations with others help to do this