I refuse to choose! How to use your interests, passions, and hobbies to build your life

About the book This is the third book by the amazing and beloved Barbara Sher. Her books "Wishcraft" and "I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What It Was" have been on the bestseller list worldwide for over 30 years. Barbara herself has helped over a million people find their purpose and truly realize their potential. What is "Refuse to Choose"? People can be divided into two types: divers and scanners. Divers are those who have chosen one field of interest and have developed in it. Scanners, on the other hand, have too many interests and passions to focus on just one thing. "Scanners" want to try everything. They study the structure of a flower and music theory with equal enthusiasm. They love to travel and are interested in politics. For "scanners," the Universe is a treasure trove where millions of works of art are stored, and it is unlikely that one lifetime will be enough to see them all. Often, scanner people feel that time is passing by, and they have not achieved anything. They have not become professionals in anything. It seems like they become an expert in one field in no time, and then become interested in another. Peers with fewer talents and opportunities have advanced far ahead, while the scanner is still at the starting line. They say: "I know I should focus on one thing, but on what exactly?" "I get bored as soon as I understand how something is done." "I don't want to choose a career because I'm afraid I'll choose wrong." "I start so many things, but hardly finish anything." If this sounds like you, you are most likely a scanner. Since this behavior is unfamiliar and incomprehensible to many, you have probably been told more than once that you are doing something wrong and that you still need to choose one path. But this is a big mistake. What has been presented to you as a flaw is actually a rare gift. In this amazing book, Barbara Sher shows how to adapt your remarkable multifaceted mind to a world that has never really understood who you truly are. By reading this book, you will learn: What is behind your frequent change of interests (there is a reason for this!) When and how to finish what you started. How to engage in everything you love. What type of scanner you are (and what tools you need for optimal work). About the author Barbara Sher is the author of seven bestsellers, each offering a practical and detailed method for discovering natural talents, setting goals, and turning dreams into reality. The press and numerous fans often refer to her as the mother of life coaching. Barbara has conducted seminars and master classes worldwide - for universities, professional organizations, Fortune 100 corporations, and government agencies. Audiences describe her as a "comedian with a message" and "the best lecturer we've ever seen." She has regularly appeared in national media on popular programs, including The Oprah Winfrey Show. Barbara Sher periodically conducts seminars at the Smithsonian Institution, Harvard, and New York Universities. In the 35-year bestseller "Wishcraft," Barbara writes about creating the life of your dreams. She offers practical problem-solving techniques, planning skills, and relevant skills. For almost 40 years, Barbara Sher has been helping people around the world turn their vague desires and dreams into concrete results.