Ducks on the roof

Drawer on the head, a ring in the nose, tattoos, ridiculous inventions and folly - this is Lisa. Painful shyness, self -doubt, accuracy, discipline and absolute obedience are Masha. Two friends, two worlds, two complete opposites. And yet - two families. Two mothers. With your views on life, upbringing, relationships with my daughter.
What is better - trust and permissiveness or total control? Should Freedom have a framework? And where are the boundaries beyond which control passes into dictatorship and leads to irreversible consequences? Is it possible to prepare a bright future against the child’s will? What is it? Where? How to find it? In what annals, in what smart books is it recorded? And where do the ducks fly away when the pond is covered with ice and freezes through?